I have this tendency of thinking I can just switch back to "friend mode" real quick when it comes to a "significant other". It's like part of me genuinely does not understand that once you cross that line you are not longer JUST a friend. But there's sometimes when a situation occurs that prompts me to want to get into his (anyone who's been in this spot) head. I'll say to him, "listen, I'm talking to you as a friend right now". Even then I know it sounds crazy, especially from a male's perspective. What woman is going to ask you a question about yourself/your thoughts that will clearly effect your relationship and then say just talk to her as a friend though? Oh, me. You know what it is, I talk to so many guys about how they feel about their relationships and the issues that come with it that when it comes to my own I don't fully understand that I have to approach it differently. This might be one of the missing pieces to me having a successful relationship: someone that understands my nonsensical logic.
...it's been real luvs --->
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