A friend of mine told me that I don't know how to appreciate good guys. At first I took it to offense because I'm big on showing appreciation, but then I realized he said this because (he thinks) he is one and our relationship isn't going exactly the way he wants, but it still made me think. Are there really any guys that are "good" or "bad" from the start? I can point out every guy that has told me he was the good guy and then ended up being the bad guy. And I'm not going to lie, I do have my moments when I think it's me, but regardless if part of the downfall was my fault, the guy's transformation into the "bad" guy is all him. I realize though that there is no transformation. Every man has it in him to be a good guy or a bad guy; it's just a matter of which one he wants to show. Don't get me wrong, I don't believe every female is the "good girl" because we aren't. Even I've had times when I was the "bad girl"; called myself trying to be "like a guy". But why when women call themselves "not giving a f*ck" it's considered acting like a guy. My theory: clearly men, in general, know how to close up better than we do. Since females are emotional creatures by nature, I believe that gives us the ability to better handle our emotions. I was once told that men are stronger than women physically, but we are stronger than them internally. As a result, when men have one bad experience that causes the "bad" guy to come out, for how long depends on each individual. So now the question is when will I find that man that's over being his "bad guy"?
...it's been real luvs ---> DUECES
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