I've always been one to give out relationship advice. I couldn't really tell you why my friends come to me, being that I haven't been in an actual relationship in 3 years, but I like being that person. One of the reasons could be that I try to be very understanding, try to look at the issue from both person's perspectives. I get that from my dad. He always told me that females overanalyze everything and males underanalyze everything. (Therefore the underlying cause of most arguments and disagreements.) I keep this piece of knowledge in mind every time I'm given a situation. Sometimes this results in the advice asker getting upset with my suggestion, but if you're asking for someone else's opinion always be prepared for it to possibly go against your's. At the same time though, I won't make anybody fulfill my suggestion because at the end of the day I'm still boyfriend-less, so how much could I really know, right? Honestly, I don't really believe that but that 's my reason for not pushing. All relationships come down to understanding, compromise, and trust. All relationships also involve two people, so if only one person is willing to work at it, it will have a low chance at succeeding. What I'm starting to realize my personal problem is, is that I'm always the person that puts so much into the relationship that there is no room for it to be 50/50. But you know how it goes; you can give advice but you can't follow it (supposedly a Virgo trait). However, I'm going to keep this in mind when it come to my future relationships. Until then though...
...it's been real luvs --->DEUCES
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